This week's theme is Where there is a Will. It could be a will as in a probate document, or unbreakable determination.
I don't have a lot of wills that I have come across in my research. Maybe a couple, but none that come to mind right now.
So I thought of what I have spent the most amount of time on. My personal brick wall.
And that is finding my maternal grandfather.
See my mom never knew her dad. Supposedly she only met him once after birth, and that was as a baby in a carriage. Her mom was pushing her in a stroller when they happened to see him and he said hi and left. Classy guy.
She grew up not knowing anything about him. As an adult she learnt that his name was Bert Tanner.
He lived in Vancouver in the early 1950's and he told my Grandma that he worked in the mines.
That was it.
Mom never really had a huge desire to know who he was until recently. Even then I think it scares her to learn more about him. But me? I'm a genealogy nut and have an insatiable desire to know things. I need to know.
So I took a DNA test and had Mom take one as well. What did we learn? A little, but not enough.
We found some 2nd cousins of Moms from Nova Scotia, all descended from Patrick Brown and Johanna Lannon.
And none of their descendants are named Bert Tanner.
We thought we had it figured out. One guy was a strong possibility. We even had help from a newly found 2nd cousin, and this guy's daughter took an Ancestry DNA test to see.
Nope. Not him.
Starting fresh.
Now I'm looking at a couple of other possibilities. One is Simon Thomas Toomey, who did live in Vancouver. Lots more digging to be done.
Eventually I will find him. It is just taking more work that I had hoped.
But as to the theme? A Will? I've got that in spades.