This is a tricky challenge. I have a few favorite photos and for different reasons.
Here is the first one. Honestly this is one of my favorite photos ever. I thought for a while that I had lost it and was quite upset and tried to recover it from a variety of places. Then inspiration struck and I saw that I had saved it on Facebook. Social Media to the rescue!
This is my grandpa Ray Percy Edwards and myself fishing for salmon, halibut and other rockfish off the coast of Port Hardy, BC. It was the summer of 2012 and the last time that grandpa came with my Dad and I fishing on the ocean. We had a great week and caught a lot of fish.
My grandpa was one of the most important people in my life. Every minute spent with him was valuable. As I grew more interested in genealogy, I would spend more time with him, asking questions and just listening to his stories. In April, 2017, I was in the Boston Airport waiting for my flight back home, when my sister called me on my cell. Immediately I knew something was wrong. My grandpa had just moved out of his longterm house to move into a home. He had been there less than a month and had had a stroke and had bleeding on the brain. The prognosis was that he wouldn't last more than a couple of hours. Sobbing I texted my aunt, Shauna, who was sitting with him, to ask her to let him know how much he meant to me and my love for him.
I caught my flight and at 2 am arrived home. I texted my wife to let her know to not expect me and I went directly to the hospital, amazed that he was still holding on. To be able to see him again, really comforted me. I didn't realize how much I needed that.
I spent most of the next two days and nights sitting in the hospital with a couple of cousins and all of my aunts. (My father was trying to fly back from Moldova in time for the funeral). We told stories, laughed, cried and rejoiced at the life Grandpa lived. What was really great, was we all had a story to share that was unique to us, that no one else knew. There was a lot of laughter. It felt like Grandpa was holding on, just to hear us talk about him.
A lot of prayers were said those two days. I went over after supper the one night, and everyone was singing gospel hymns. I sat down, joined in and never felt a stronger Spirit. There were a lot of people and spirits in that room. And a lot of tears. We sang for a couple of hours. I went home late that night and awoke to the news that he had passed away early that morning.
I miss Grandpa every day. But the time I spent with him was so valuable, so precious to me, that I wouldn't trade it for anything in the world.
In terms of genealogical significance, here is another photo that I love. Ray Percy Edwards and Verla Jensen on their wedding day, November 11, 1953. They were married in Cardston at the LDS temple there. Not sure who has the original photo anymore, I got this copy from Chantelle Froc, my cousin.
This is definitely going to be a challenge to keep up each week. I'm glad for the email prompts I'm getting to keep me focused.